It is a strange thing-- perspective. One year ago, I was married. Trying to salvage a relationship. Trying to uphold vows. Trying to keep the fact we were struggling out of the public eye. Yet, the dysfunction was so glaringly obvious to everyone. It was through the comments and concern that I was able to see… Continue reading Reflection

X moved out last March. Since then my perception of our almost ten year relationship has changed. Time and having a more removed perspective has highlighted how absolutely fucked up my relationship with X was. Last night my friend Joe Schmo made the analogy that its like being a Vietnam vet. Relationships become a battlefield.… Continue reading Doubt