Divorce · Relationships

Moving the line.

My Ex called me yesterday. I did not pick up at first. I finished what I was doing. This is a behavior I taught myself as I learned the idea of boundaries. That this person, who inevitably brings a whirlwind into my life, doesn't get my time or energy until I say so. He called… Continue reading Moving the line.

Motherhood · Relationships

Last

I am officially in my last year of my thirties. I slid into my 39th year on earth in the midst of a ridiculously busy week. It was packed volunteering with the PTO, helping run events at the school we planned, with holiday fun with the kids, and going from one commitment to the next.… Continue reading Last

blended · Modern Family · Motherhood · parenthood · Relationships · Stepparent

Ten Plus One

I try each birthday to reflect on the kids and write them a love letter. It is a harder goal most days. This place is less of a commitment to myself and more of a place to go when I need to sort or process my life. I have ninety drafts. I come often enough,… Continue reading Ten Plus One